Zoe Aspasia

 

Contessa I identify greatly with. While I do agree I appear as a Goddess in many forms (and am fine with being addressed with such), I rest as a regular awesome person, out and about, making awesome happen in public and in private. It also seems vampy and as a semi-goth it adds more bite. I also enjoy fine things in my house, but, I work behind the scenes. I may be your Queen in your eyes (and enjoy the title), but, I think of the freedom of the courtier to enjoy the country, work closely with tradespeople and artists and choose a select few for servitude (as I do), people who I click with who appreciate the energy of my “Villa”.

Zoe is a Sophist, educator, writer, freak who greatly believes in the power of kink: How it enables people to reconnect with their bodies, to rediscover and rekindle their own sexuality and (very importantly) their sense of play. It connects us with our personal power, getting to know ourselves better with each challenge, and teaches us how to better prune and plant our gardens rather than racing for the neighbours lawn: grass has no nourishment. If you understand metaphor you’ll see the first step. I’m also a clown, I love to create parody / pun play/ perverted nods to great artists before me; I own several noses, and that’s no joke (ha). I love play, the obscure, the darkness, and thrive on the surrender of slaves and fetishists achieving present-ness via sensation play and especially taking the first anal orgasm of anyone (or any thereafter).

Aspasia was a famous Hetaira (courtesan) in ancient Greece. She was of the variety that attended epic debaucherous dinner parties, who came from outside of Greece, who had been educated elsewhere enough to pick brains and debate. She was also one of the first sex workers to be granted fairly significant rights as a citizen for herself and her family. They were the type of courtesan that tickled your brain and would also tickle your feet, play kinky games with all genders and was part of a Villa of great thinkers, movers and shakers. Hetairai were excellent kinky supportive company.

Contessa Zoe Aspasia

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